Wednesday, April 23, 2014

Self-sacrificial Relationships



As a friend updated me on her and her husband's journey of becoming foster parents and as I reflect on the role of husband I am preparing to take on, I was struck by this thought:

Sometimes I wish Adam and Eve had simply obeyed God; everything would be hunky-dory. The cross wouldn't have been necessary, and relationships would not require such personal sacrifice. Yet there is something painfully sweet about stepping out of control into the self-sacrifice of loving others more than I love myself.

When Adam and Eve sinned, God didn't say, "Oops, time for plan B." Self-sacrificial love is the way He wanted to reveal His heart to us. Through the same, He invites us to reveal His heart to each other.